As a rule, men, who constantly make acquaintances in Internet, can be divided into several categories in conformity with their goals and motives. So, let’s start.
1. A PHILOSOPHER
It is a 30-35 years old man, married, as a rule, with one child. He got tired from marriage. But he is not going to divorce because of some reason (because of his child, on moral or material grounds). As a rule “philosophers” are jealous and authoritarian; that is why it is very difficult for them to find a woman on the side. Relations with him are a detonating mixture of romance, passion, complaints about life and his wife, bragging about successes of his child and homilies. They rather need an internet girlfriend as a “gum for soul” than for adultery. When he is bored with her, he will throw her away and find another one with other taste.
That is why if you see that a man, with whom you are communicating, is a “Philosopher”, you should run away from him as far as possible. Try not to maintain virtual relations with him and don’t go out on dates with him. Such people are not happy and radiate luckless fluids around them.
2. A PRINCE
It is a 30-35 years old man, but either childless or the one who successively destroyed his family regardless of presence of children. He doesn’t want to solve family problems and runs away from them in a virtual world. No one keeps on nagging at him there. He can show his uniqueness to the wide world, because he has a high necessity to win the recognition, and it is increasing. His wife didn’t appreciate him – well, he can be admired by dozens of other ladies. A dream about a prince is living in subconsciousness of any woman, who liked fairy-tales in childhood, so our hero soon forms a kind of “fanbase”, from which he chooses girls for dating. By the way, he is fabulously generous. And kind of honest: he will never say that you are his only one. As a rule, such stories end well: a “Prince” finally chooses a girl from his “fanbase”, and his private life overshadows the virtual world later on. So you have few chances of becoming his princess, but you have chances if you are the best of all. Or the most agile. But if you got a “Prince”, you should watch after him and don’t let him run and heal the love wounds in Internet. He will surely find comforters there, and he’s already acquired necessary experience.
3. A DWARF
“Dwarves” are past masters of virtual romances. Having fallen into a sweet trap of emotional dependency, which resembles love very much, a girl takes the risk of losing her psychical equilibrium. The reason is that two things become clear later on: firstly, he has a girlfriend in real life; secondly, it appears that not everything is OK with him. He may be overweight, his face may be pimply, or his height may be just a meter and a half. And if he has attractive appearance, he will definitely have serious psychological problems.
Generally such romance ends with one of two possible variants. The first possibility is that having been convinced of truth of her feelings, a “Dwarf” informs her in Internet that their relations mean nothing to him because he has another beloved woman, and then he enjoys the effect of this wound. The second possibility is rarer: he decides to transfer their relations to the real world. In this case “dwarves” suffer a defeat, because a virtual girlfriend understands everything on the first date and quickly recover from infatuation. An offended “Dwarf” has to come back to Internet and behaves according to the first scenario.
4. A SYSTEM ADMINISTRATOR
“Admins” have one common feature: they spend a lot of time at work in front of computers with Internet access. They make acquaintances not because they are malicious: they just need to kill time. The only thing that overshadows the light image of an admin is his wife. And he is married not because of maliciousness, but for practical purposes: he can’t cook, iron or wash clothes by himself. As a rule, “admins” are unpretentious creatures, so food and household services of their wives or girlfriends can keep them “within” marriage. An “Admin” is a lazy person. If you want to become his mistress, you should show him your uniqueness. If you succeed in methodical and purposeful conviction of an “admin” in that you are a perfection and simple feast in comparison to his wife, you will be able to raise doubts in his domesticated soul and will probably be able to meet him. Of course, when he is free from work and wife, and it happens quite rarely. If you are going to become an “admin’s” wife, you should choose quite different role: you will have to come to his workplace, bring him hot lunches and take care of his comfort.
5. A MARCH CAT
Probably, a “March cat” is the most pleasant category of men seeking for new acquaintances. Such people are always honest about their intentions. A “March cat” needs a woman at all costs and is seeking for her everywhere he goes. You should agree to meet a “March cat” in case your interests generally coincide, everything you know about him suits you and you won’t regret about time you spend on him. By the way, if you are not impressed by your virtual communication, he haven’t said you anything special, haven’t fascinated you or writes bad grammar, it is not the reason to refuse meeting him. Sometimes people are not able to use written speech and don’t have enough skills of fast typing to write correctly. But, from the other hand, they are good interlocutors and attentive listeners. But sometimes everything can be quite the opposite. You shouldn’t trust photos: a photo never gives the right impression about appearance of your virtual friend. But it is still advisable to get his photo before the first real date in order to be sure that you won’t faint away when you see him for the first time. You have the highest chances to find your beloved among “March cats”. Everything is simple: such men need a woman, and you need a man.
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