Each of us dreams to fall in love, to love and be loved and live together in love and peace for life. But our life is not ideal, and quarrels happen in every family, and there is not a single family without complaints and conflicts. It is a very rare phenomenon when family relationship remains ideal. Many people often wonder how to preserve and improve the relationship with your beloved and how to avoid a storm of miseries. The best way for both partners is to sort their own thoughts out and follow ordinary rules, which promote understanding and peace in family.
Discuss your relationship with your significant other, share your thoughts and find out her point of view. Discuss your frankness towards each other and how confidential and strong your relationship is. It is always easy to feel and notice falseness and lie during such conversations, because when you speak about love, you perceive emotions, gestures and looks and can understand if a person is sincere or not.
Discuss all aspects of your relationship and try to find out what you want from your relationship. Be sincere with each other; don’t be shy and afraid to express your opinion and desires. You should enjoy your closeness, which is not possible without sincerity.
You should find a common goal, which you will achieve together. You will be able to achieve a desirable result only if you overcome all obstacles on your way together. Respect your partner and take him/her as he/she is. There are no identical people, and it is the reason of you two being together.
Be sincere about shortcomings of your significant other, but do not criticize, especially in front of strangers. Discuss these matters in private. Only having discussed a problem, you will be able to arrive at a common opinion.
Solve your problems right away as far as they appear and never leave it until later. All negative accumulated emotions can lead to an explosion of your emotions and destroy your relationship once and for all.
Learn to make concessions to each other and settle it among yourselves. It is an important rule of relationship. Having made a concession to your beloved, you show respect and let him/her see that your beloved is very important for you.
Listen and hear what exactly your significant other wants to say to you. To listen is simply to talk to each other about a job, friends, entertainment, plans, etc. To hear is to completely focus an inner consciousness of your interlocutor on you, giving him/her a possibility to go deep in your thoughts.
Don’t lose the feeling of closeness between yourselves. If you lose this closeness, then you start growing apart and slowly become cold strangers. Always plan your future together. Discuss even the most insignificant details of your life: a shopping excursion, what movie to watch in the evening, what to cook for dinner, etc. Practise proper hygiene. Cleanliness is next to godliness. When we look at a person we pay attention first to his/her appearance, shoes, and hairstyle. It is said not without reason that clothes count for first impressions.
Regular closeness makes you even closer and always reminds your partner how strongly you love him/her and that you want to conquer the most desirable summits of love only with your significant other.
Never vent your spleen on your beloved, if you are in impaired mood. It’s not his/her fault. Take a fresh shower before going to bed. Water washes away all negative energy that has accumulated inside a man.
Always apologize if now that you’ve done something wrong. It is a common mistake to say that you are right when you know that you are wrong. Everyone makes mistakes for not making the same mistakes in future, right?
Don’t depend on each other too much, because complete dependence makes people unhappy.
Keep your dignity, because this is the way of demonstrating self-respect. Fill your life with various interesting hobbies, which you’ve never tried, and then share your impression with your beloved.
Help and support each other in everyday life, too. Tidy up rooms together, take out the trash by turn, and cook together. If you do everything mutually, there won’t be a single insignificant everyday squabble in your life.
Always look after your health and treat it with due care.