Millions of people dream to find his or her other part but unfortunately not everyone is lucky. The older a person gets the more difficult is for him to find his love. Time is not a problem but it is quite challenging to find the right place for it. Movies and theater seem very unlikely, meeting on the street is not decent, doing it while on holidays is a cliché and not serious. One can try his luck with dating agencies, sites and newspapers. Each of these options has its advantages and disadvantages.
I placed an ad in a newspaper for a start:
1. “A young, good looking girl would like to meet a real man who is romantic and loves adventure”.
2. “Impassionate blonde without financial problems would like to meet a single intelligent man”.
Letter with pictures of potential husbands started arriving immediately. Young and beautiful girl got “usual” offers, you know what I mean and a blonde without financial problems attracted mostly gigolos and men without a place to live. There were many “married yet very lonely” ones. In short, getting giving up on the idea to find my prince through a newspaper I went for assistance to a dating agency.
Chances to find a husband through the agency are much bigger. You can sign an agreement for a year, pay a certain charge and get an access to the database. The conditions are the same for men and women (married people are not allowed which is an advantage). If a man likes a girl’s profile he can her number and meet her while it is not really the same for women since they are not supposed to call first. So you have to ask the staff at the agency to arrange a date. Your information id kept in the database for 12 months. However, the agency doesn’t guarantee you to find your life partner. Besides they tend to overrate the qualities and merits of their clients and don’t report information about children from previous marriages and divorces. The probability to run into a marriage scam is very high. By the way, there are many gold diggers among potential wives as well. Therefore you should be careful. It’s better to live your mobile or work number. Naturally it’s safer to meet on neutral territory where you can talk: in a café, park. According to my experience these agencies are for men between 40 and 60 with inferiority complex or financial difficulties. Rich and handsome man would never consider contacting these agencies. Then why do you need some loser with a baggage and lots of problems?
Those you hope to find happiness online will be bitterly disappointed. You can spend years talking to 30 year old blonde guy with blue yeas who will turn out to be a pimpled teenager. The registration fee is 20 bucks and you will have to pay another 50 to get the number of a guy or a girl. And again there is no guarantee you are going to meet the person you’ve seen online. Still it’s better to register on this site then upload your picture on some random free site where you can end up next to some girl in indecent pose. It is very unlikely to increase your chances to meet a man for serious relationships.
Based on my experience trying to find my Mr Right I came to conclusion that there are no universal recipes to find this man. However it doesn’t mean you have to give up. The most important is to keep trying and meet people. You ask where? Trips to the country, parties, sport clubs (my girlfriend met her husband at kung-fu class, there are no men with dreadful habits there, trust me). You can look up information in yellow pages. Just don’t stay at home in front of TV all the time. Do your hair, put on something nice and sexy and go out. I will find him eventually, be sure.
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