How often do we flirt?

According to some statistics women start flirting with every man from the first minute. It doesn’t depend on whether she finds him attractive. It happens on intuitive level and in the next couple minutes she decides whether she is going to continue flirting with him or not. Almost every woman knows how to flirt. However not every one can make the best of it. Let’s remember the flirting basics and try to understand how it works since it plays an important part in the art of seduction.

Don’t forget to keep in under control so it doesn’t look that you are trying to hard. It should be natural, lightly. Once you’ve chosen your object go ahead. Besides verbal ways the most important part of flirting is body language.

Well, let’s start with the most important thing such as carrying yourself. Many women and young girls today walk round-backed with heavy shoulders. It is not going to work. It might be surprising but men pays first attention to the way woman carries herself. The best way to get right carriage is to stand with your back to the wall so your head, shoulders, elbows, buttocks, calves and heels touch the wall. Now put your hand on the small of the back and push your body forward a little bit. Great! You have a perfect carriage!

Oh, these hands, we often don’t what to do with them… while flirting awkward hands can ruin everything. You just have to remember couple rules to avoid uncomfortable feeling. First, crossing hands on your chest is impermissible. This jester shows the lack of desire to communicate not to mention flirting. You can rub something (a glass in front of you, for example) but it will mean that you are ready to learn a person closer.

Apart from hands we have legs and they can also participate in the game. If you are proud of your legs then drop something “by accident” and bend over to pick it up, but do it gracefully. If you are seating with your legs crossed then keep in mind that you should cross the upper part of your legs, it makes woman more interesting however don’t forget about the length of your skirt so it won’t be too much.

An intriguing look in woman’s eyes can mesmerize virtually any man. The connection occurs when eyes meet. You should know how to use it. When your eyes meet, hold it for couple seconds and then look away with a slight turn of your head. Three or four seconds is enough. When you look in man’s eye mentally complement him or say something like “I’m almost yours”. As you know eyes can tell a lot so use it for non verbal communication. If you decide to be act more decisive and give a wink do it carefully. It is best to wink at everybody but no one in particular. Otherwise a man can understand it in a wrong way. If a man is looking away most likely he is not interesting in meeting you. He is not your hero so let him go. There is someone else out there. These are pretty much the basics of flirting. Use it wisely and enjoy your victories!

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