There are a lot of clever and attentive women, who crave for meeting a man of their dream. As time goes by, they start feeling lonely and think about marriage more often. They understand that it is really rime to get married. However, the faster time flies, the lesser marriage proposals you receive. Yes, they don’t suffer from loneliness in a literal sense. They are surrounded by friends and pals. Nevertheless, they clearly hear ticking of a “biological clock”.
How is it possible to attract man’s attention? You look like quite a successful woman. You can be called self-confident, resolute, purposeful, clever and well-to-do. But why don’t men hurry to build a serious relationship with you as time goes by? But have you ever thought about reason why men would build a serious relationship with you? What signals do you send outwards, which should make a man to react and show his willingness to meet you?
We transfer information about ourselves even before approaching to a person and saying a single word. And the first impression is based on our appearance and signals we send, no matter whether we want it or not. People can effortlessly make an approximate appraisal of our social skills, educational level and belonging to a certain social group in matter of seconds. Moreover, they immediately detect our emotional state. People make conclusions concerning our emotions on the basis of mimics, movements and our look.
Men instantly react on joy signals on woman’s part. Cheerfulness is attractive and tempting. According to researches, men take not really attractive women even better, if these women send positive signals. It forms generally favorable impression about a person and gives an idea about his mood and a level of his energy.
As a rule, after a man formed the first impression, he starts completing the picture in his mind. And he will seek confirmation of his thoughts in all your actions. If he formed the positive opinion about you, he would diminish all negative displays from your side to some extent. Otherwise, even positive actions from your side could be interpreted by him negatively. Of course, the first impression can be changed, but it is quite stable like any stereotypes.
There are many factors, which influence the first impression about a woman. If we enumerate incalculable quantity of details, you will hardly be able to control them. That is why you should pay attention to the most important groups of factors. According to our observations, the first impression is based on several fundamental components:
1. Physical signs: appearance, voice, gait, behavior.
2. Attitude towards the interlocutor at the given moment.
3. Attitude towards yourself.
4. Attitude towards other people.
5. World outlook.
6. Your “promises” or your benefit.
7. Information the interlocutor gets from you.
8. Context of the meeting.
Each of these factors has different topicality for your interlocutor. But the most important thing here is the possibility to influence these factors to a greater or lesser degree. And still, everything you can offer him later is also very important (apart from the first impression).
Women, with whom men want to maintain a long relationship, know how to behave sincerely and nicely. These rare women know what men want. They know how to give care, passion and tenderness in a remarkable manner. They don’t ask men for anything. Men do everything for these women be themselves. A woman, who really can hold a man next to her, rarely bothers him with questions, and never intrudes him. Successful women (in terms of relationship) never make scenes of jealousy, but they also don’t curry favor with men. They don’t nag at men for some false steps and don’t force them to make a choice. A man feels like man next to a woman only if he makes his own decisions. It is another matter how a man comes to these decisions. Men are inwardly grateful to women, who give them a possibility to consider themselves masters of the situation.
If you want to build a long and happy relationship with a man, bring in something beautiful and unusual as often as you can. Bright mutual emotions cement relationships between two people, they activate mechanisms influencing on their feeling of love. Try and experiment – your relationship shouldn’t freeze in one place. By widening the flight of imagination, each woman can make several pleasant romantic things for her beloved. If you’ve been meeting for quite a long period of time, invite your beloved to a date. Or you can think up your own scenario for each festive occasion, which will include a history of your relationship: the day of your wedding, the day when you’ve started dating, the day of the first…
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