Love and woman are two sides of the medal. And for a full harmony women need someone they can give this medal. However it is not that easy to find him. Even the most accomplished young girls spend years alone or in company of their girlfriends. So what women do wrong?
Just be yourself
We are trying too hard to stay attractive: never leave home without make up on and hair done, renew ward-robe four times a year and stick to one of Carnegie’s suggestion to project prosperity even if we don’t have it. We demonstrate that we are “involved with someone”. Well, then who would try to come up to meet you? I meet men mostly when I’m worried about my make up running or a broken hill. I mean when I look a little bit upset and vulnerable.
Just be palsied
Speaking of which, it is an illusion, of cause. Nevertheless men are tired of our independence. They are waiting for a chance to show their masculinity and be able to take care of us delicate, fragile and helpless women.
We just have to play alone. You don’t have to tell him that you can get rid of a cold in three days. You should make the most of it: be moody and capricious, let him think that you are almost dying and he is the only one who can save you. Let him be your hero and tell him that he is your Zorro. Men’s self-esteem should be flattered; you will only gain from it.
Don’t be obsessed with fashion.
Hardly any man would remember what you were wearing when you met. Even if you wear the same outfit to the second date he will hardly notice it. He is more interested in what is under this outfit. Then why have you spent a week looking for “that particular top”? He won’t be able to recognize the difference. Your complaining that you have nothing to wear might make you sound like a material girl and will make him wonder. Do you really need it?
Praise his cooking skills
Men can cook very well. They love doing it for people who appreciate their talent. So what’s the problem? Just don’t forget to tell him that men are the best chefs and you will never be able to make a better ham sandwich. In general you can’t do what he can.
Ask him for help
Don’t be afraid to ask him for help, he might not have a clue that you need it. Just be direct with him as men don’t get hints sometimes.
Listen what he says to you Hearing him out is the only way to satisfy his self-esteem. However don’t let him to abuse your attention; he can discuss work with his friends and colleagues as you won’t understand the changes on real estate market anyway.
Just say “no”
Sometimes you have to say “no”. He must understand that you are not that easy. You shouldn’t forget about yourself. Spending time with your friends won’t hurt and might make him a bit jealous in a good way. After spending hours thinking what he might have done wrong surprise him with unexpected visit.